By Smith Nwokocha
STANDOUT WITH MR. PATRICK UDUMA
THEME: “RIGHTLY DO IT”
TOPIC: THE PRESTIGIOUS
@ The Inner Court, Royal Garden Hotel, Arochukwu Street, Rumuomasi, Port Harcourt, Rivers State.
11AM, Saturday, February 5th, 2022.
WHO WE ARE?
To become a universal instrument that influences and models value creation and human development.
To educate, inspire, and expose the minds of young people to vital truths through deliberate experiential teaching knowledge sharing and mentoring.
MR. PATRICK UDUMA sharing insights on the theme, he said; “Love is Service, Love is an Honour”. Until you do something differently, add something different, you will not see a different result.
2022 the year of “RIGHTNESS”! In StandOut, we teach alternative thinking, we challenge status quo and help you re-discover who you are. “Our Suffering is rooted to wrong thinking”. Change your thought/thinking pattern and you will move towards success. “Rightly do things”. Rightly do things and you will see a different result. Do a reversal thinking and ask yourself, in any thought pattern you process, is it the right thing?
A lot of dimensions; You have to be INTENTIONAL about what you want in Life.
MENTOR’S TABLE (Moderated by Chioma Ezenwafor)
What is important is “ME”! and not what happened to me or happening to me. You are the architect/designer of your Life… This Generation unfortunately, wants EFFECTS, but they don’t want the PAIN.
Reflecting on the Topic: PRESTIGIOUS; What is Prestigious? Simply, respect giving to someone; Reputation. What is that you can put in effort, that men will respect. What it is that you are doing that references you! Prestige means respect and good image of somebody. Each time you don’t have reputation or character, you are a consumer.
The Principle of S.S.S (Source, Service and Self). You can’t expect success from doing wrong. “Never seen Cheaters drop generational legacy”. Being Prestigious, is not the situation that makes you, you dictate the situation.
I= Beauty from inside, is incorruptible. Kindness; You are not kind, until you kind to the unkind. Always engage from your value consciousness not expectation angle. Hard work; Internationality; Connects with value system.
P= Purpose in leadership means service. Leadership means bringing value/service to your organization.
M= Meaning! Having meaning, helps you survive.
Every time you bring honour, you bring credit to yourself. If you grant honour, you are in a prestigious place. To be a prestigious person, is to be person that serves and bring honour to his family, organization and society.
QUESTION AND ANSWER SESSION WITH MR. PATRICK UDUMA AND DR. MERCY BELLO ABU:
Dr. Mercy Bello Abu has an amazing profile, that was read to the audience by the Elegant Chioma Ezenwafor. The first question Chioma asked Dr. Mercy Bello, was to share her journey? The underlining feedback from her, was that, she likes to see people do better or become better. She also, help people to make right decision in course of her journey in life. She emphasized that; you become better too by association. “You see a prepared future; you create the future you want”. How prepared are we as young people not to miss opportunities when it comes? Dr. Mercy Bello highlighted the success story of her daughter to inspire young people.
Chioma Ezenwafor added “Be an ardent reader, you will excel”. “Function like someone is watching you and it keeps you in check and of course, it helps you not to live a double-standard life.” Chioma sighted the story of her younger sister to motivate the young people present.
In conclusion, Mr. Patrick Uduma, added: “What you hate can’t produce for you”.